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Thursday, June 18, 2009

On 11:28 AM by KiAnna   7 comments
I'm not sure how to feel about this...

On one hand, I see a male who is CLEARLY stronger than the female he fought, slam her, and kick her and kept going back for more like his rage couldn't be controlled. While a bunch of able bodied TEENAGERS (this is why I didn't and still don't deal with people my own age) stood around either yelling, "She's a female!" Or breaking up the fight when they felt it went too far, but letting them get at each other again...wtf?!! They let them fight for entertainment purposes, what other point is there for fighting? I saw a female being attacked and victimized, assaulted,etc... by a BOY who CLEARLY has very little morals, and in reality could and SHOULD go to jail for the ASSAULT of that girl, by law he should have simply walked away b/c he can't justify his actions,or at least the extent he took them to.

Now on the OTHER hand, b/c you KNOW I have to look at both sides of the matter. I saw at the very beginning of the video, a girl pushing off people so she could get at the boy (who soon slammed her) to obviously attack him. So in a very LOGICAL way, she asked for it.
(If you disagree think of it this way, she was trying to fight another girl, seems less harmless nevertheless FOCUS on the fact that she was trying to attack someone and self defense does come into play)
This girl approached the young man and they began to tussle (I just wanted to use that word) so it all seems fair when you remove gender from the equation. I'm sure the video did not start at the beginning of the fight so I can't say who started it. But I can say they both played a MAJOR part in it.


Now the Muthafuggin CHILDREN standing around watching...wtf!? Seriously?

Why would they allow that to go on?

Would you?

It's so easy to say what you would or would not do, but if you saw a man beating on a woman right in front of you, would you help her?
Think of it that way, it's so easy for you to sit in front of a computer screen and say, "Of course I would help her!"
But your own safety, along with a bunch of other considerations must be acknowledged.
What if it was a MAN being beat on by a woman?
Most people would probably laugh and call him all types of pathetic...but is that fair?

If he were to hit that woman back he would be WRONG for it! Right?
That double standard is quite ridicuolous when you think about it. How illogical and unreasonable do you have to be to NOT see the similarities in both examples?
And just think, MOST people think this way...


And some wonder why I think most folks are stupid....

Remove the gender and ask yourself...
Would you help a PERSON IN NEED?



Tuesday, June 16, 2009

On 1:09 PM by KiAnna   2 comments



As we defy the laws of gravity I have to wonder... when will it fail?
I mean I am over 10,000 feet above ground right now in a machine that weighs several TONS, and yet some people are sleeping. Sleeping symbolizes a level of comfort, but when you think about it, should they really feel comfortable?

I have no fear of flying, I travel far too much for that to even balance out, however I am a realist and realistically thinking about my current situation makes me think of the good and bad and the bad is, as questioned in the beginning, When will it fail?

Let's think of this on an even grander scale, and consider when will things we do in our daily life cease to function properly? Are we prepared for the confusion and chaos it very well may cause us? Am I?

I'm always ready to die, honestly. Sounds morbid I know, but I am DEFYING the FREAKIN LAWS of GRAVITY right now, and if this man made device ceases to function properly I have to be prepared. I AM taking a chance with my life, after all. But, let's not just label airplanes as death devices, even cars, bicycles, stepping in or out of your own home presents the same fatal possibilities.

Have you ever heard the stories people tell of dead loved ones? The typical story that, "He worked hard ALL his life, was honest, good,etc. But never really got to enjoy himself, he died never really fulfilling many of his desires."
How sad is that?!!

You work hard and endure the STRESS that comes with the work force, struggle to make an honest living and before you die you ask yourself, "Have I lived my life to the fullest? Am I truly fulfilled? Can I honestly say I lived my life for me and actually did enjoy the (small or big) moments that left a smile on my face and an impression in my heart?"

And most of you can honestly say, no.

Depressing when you put it all into perspective, but that depression is simply you realizing how short life is, and that in the end, it's only with yourself. Do you see why I asked when will it all fail? I have a tendency to question things I can't clearly see in front of me and the possibility of things is always intriguing to me. Even if that possibility is a sad thought, it's still realistic. I say, FACE YOUR FEARS DAMMIT! FACE EM!
It's a lot easier than hiding from them b/c you're not even truly hiding, they consume your thoughts and affect you physically as well as mentally, how ridiculous is that when you can just solve your problem right then and there?!!

Death is only scary because it symbolizes the end. But you don't truly know when your end is, so of all things to stress over that shouldn't be one. And even more so it should ENCOURAGE you to LIVE your LIFE to the FULLEST! Why not. Or you could be the typical depressing story of the person that never truly explored their own mind and thoughts to figure out what truly made THEM happy. You should at least smile on the inside when it's all said and done.
So the possibility of things failing around me does not scare me, doesn't even slow down my pace, I'm always thinking of a back up plan, b/c my optimism outweighs my fears.

Most of the time your drama is mental. And that's no one's fault but your own.

YES, blame yourself! Accept responsibility. If you do that it'll be a lot easier to move on. It's people that are too immature to realize they are the source of their actions and not their friends, influences,etc that have more problems. True indeed these people may affect you but the end result is up to you. (Unless there's a gun to your head)

So hopefully it's all sinking in and you're putting things into perspective, hopefully you've gathered what I mentioned earlier about being ready to die. Because every time I board a plane to travel the globe I think about my life ending, b/c it very well CAN HAPPEN, and I ask myself,
Have I lived my life to the fullest? Am I truly fulfilled? Can I honestly say I lived my life for me and actually did enjoy the (small or big) moments that left a smile on my face and an impression in my heart?

And I can honestly answer, yes.


Can you?
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